Women as a boy who dresses well, we can take this for granted. First off, remove any preconceived notions you may have that you need to be head to toe in designer clothing to be considered a "good dresser" because that is simply not true. It is also true to say that what looks good on one boy may not look as good ... or not at all on the next boy. So why is this? Simply put, we come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. Not only that, but it's kind of embarrassing when you see old folks who still wear Abercombie and Fitch almost as much as when you see a chubby guy who's been training for a few weeks and squeezes a tight shirt to show off his "pythons" and manboobs , sorry "pecs" on.
Let's say you're a big guy, by big I mean fat. Your first priority is to get in shape. Being thin says a lot about your character; Give women the impression that you are a man of self-esteem and value your appearance, which means that you are a man of self-esteem. It also shows that you are goal-determined and determined as you train persistently and that you are, dare I say it? Sexy!. Yes, just like us, boys look at girls' bodies and think about what naked women who do the same look like. So work on your endurance, big man.
Ok, enough of the drill sergeant. Being big around the waist doesn't mean you can't lift women, it just makes it a little harder unless you have strong social proof (if you don't know what social proof means, check out my trust article - part 1) Wear A black shirt will instantly make you look slimmer, add a sports jacket and you'll look like someone in authority. It's worth mentioning here that it's not just about the clothes you wear but HOW you wear them. I'll dig into this more in a future article on body language, but it's worth noting that you should have your shoulder blades back and your chest up. This does not mean that you overdo it and walk like Mr. Incredible, but rather that it prevents you from slouching and walking with your shoulders level and your chin up says dominance, a man with skill, and that for women is attractive. For fat men, shirts or sweaters with horizontal lines are a no no, they will make you look like a walking balloon, so avoid this at all costs.
So what if you are big but muscular? Everyone, often big muscular men will try to show off their physique by wearing Baby Gap clothing. My friends, the only people you attract with clothes a size or two too small for you are gays and others who exercise. The best way to dress if you are muscular is to wear tapered and tight clothing that shows the shape of your physique but leaves you a mystery, for example; A skinny cashmere sweater with dress pants and pretty shoes with a decent watch is sure to attract women's attention. Men with a decent physique benefit from the exuberant confidence of knowing that they have a decent body that actually attracts women more than the physique itself. So leave the tank tops and lycra shorts on for the '80s boys.
At the opposite end of the spectrum we have skinny guys. Skinny guys who wear baggy clothes look like walking hangers for that. Skinny guys can look good in something other than clothing that makes them look fragile. So stick to tight designs, and maybe put on your outfits and experiment with what you like. Don't be afraid to look a little funky and add your own unique flair and style.
To coordinate the colors of your clothes here is a simple rule of thumb; Earth colors go hand in hand, don't mix them with strong colors like red. Wedding Hanbok 2 pairs of clothes together, for example; Tan shoes match a tan sweater with a black jacket that matches black jeans. Just look for things that coordinate and don't wear more than 2 or 3 colors in one outfit if you wear earth colors, just keep it simple.
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